Have you reached adulthood without ever having a romantic relationship? Maybe you’re inexperienced: you’ve never gone on a date, held hands, kissed or had sex. Maybe you’ve done a little of this stuff but you usually get rejected. Maybe you’re shy about flirting and asking people to go out. This site is for you.

People of all genders and orientations have difficulty with dating. Some of us become “late bloomers” – people can and do start dating in their 20s, 30s and later. Some people remain single all their lives. Long-time single people struggle with loneliness, self-acceptance, and the social stigma against singles and virgins. You might feel anxious, depressed, frustrated or alienated.

You are a unique individual. There may be many reasons why you haven’t started dating, so there is no one simple solution. We don’t promise to get you a date tonight! But you can begin to make changes that will improve your life as a single person, and put you in the right mindset to find love.

This website offers lots of information and advice. You are welcome to share your questions, stories and art. Let’s give each other hope for a better future!

If you are feeling desperate or suicidal, please contact a crisis centre on this US, Canada & international list or this international list.

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